Searching For My Soulmate

Though I believe in the magicial concept of soulmates, I believe more in friendship and the evolution of a possible partnership that comes from getting to know each other as friends. Though it may seem I have high expectations of meeting my soulmate via this web site, I am more about expanding my circle of friends and in the process, perhaps a soulmate will appear. For me, it's all about keeping it light & fun and allowing the natural flow to unfold. I have learned from past relationships that although it may seem like all the stars are aligning when you first meet someone, it takes time to see if any black holes exist. Chemistry is easy. Longer term compatibility is the unseen galaxy. This is why I believe in taking things slow, but at the same time having fun.

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Aloha, my name is Rob and I am in search of my Soulmate, but best friend first...

Have you ever found yourself in a place in your life where you wondered where in the world your soulmate was and felt the universe was taking a bit too long to present this person? Is it possible that our soulmates have passed us by somewhere, sometime in our daily lives without us noticing? Sometimes it takes doing something a little different or thinking a little different to increase the chances of meeting a soulmate. This is my "doing something a little different".

Seems there are not many men that use the term soulmate when referencing the pursuit of true love. I guess I'm just an optimistic romantic. It's probably true that I have seen one too many romantic comedies. Still, I'm truly ready not to be a bachelor any longer. I never made a very good bachelor anyway. I'm not much for bars or the bachelor life. I do best in a relationship. I believe I am a very good catch...

I believe in true love, romance, passion, honesty and good communication. Most of all, I believe a quality relationship starts with friendship. Chemistry is essential and my best love relationships were with people where there was mutual chemistry. However, if you only have the chemistry without a strong friendship foundation and respect for one another, it probably won't last long.

I'm not looking to get married right away, but to co-create a deep friendship with a special woman which has potential to lead to a monogomous partnership in time.

Match?

You

You are fit/attractive, playful, funny, loving, peaceful, positive, sweet, sensual. A sense of spirituality even if it's just found in music, nature, yoga or meditation. You are good with staying active together going places an doing things. Connection with animals and nature. I'd rather not date someone who gets "Lost" in their television. Cuddling up for a movie is good. She is a true friend first above all else. She should have a positive attitude and looking for a relationship based on friendship, honesty, good communication, and similar interests. I'm open to getting to know anyone, as long as you are low drama with no major addictions. Can be spontaneous, fun and silly.

Fit and fun, easy going, athletic, mostly vegetarian, great sense of humor. Nature rocks my world. I enjoy the beach, mountains, camping, hiking, Hawaii!, etc. My daily exercise includes working out, biking, blading and yoga. I prefer a relationship that starts with friendship and fun adventures like exploring nature, travel, road trips. I'm into the natural flow and would rather have a healthy friendship with a woman than a romantic relationship that is not right. I learned from past relationships that it is better to take things slow and get to know each other on a friendship level. I'm mostly living in Santa Monica and San Diego on occasion.